Every writer deals with discouragement. Often, the time it
takes to get published plays into feelings that we’re not good enough, we’ll
never make it, insert personal doubt
here. My journey to seeing The
Covered Deep published took fourteen long years. There were plenty of
moments during that time when I doubted. However, now as I look back, the
waiting was valuable. Here’s some things I learned along the way:
1.
You
make friends for life.
No one understands writers like
writers. It is vital that you find a support group of people who get you. You
might find these writers in a critique group, at a conference, or at a local
writers meeting. No matter where you find these friends, find them as fast as
you can. You will not survive on your own. Every writer has moments of thinking
they can’t go on. You will need other writers to talk you off the ledge when
those moments come.
2.
It
takes time to develop a thick skin.
I have long suspected that all
writers feel deeply. We are the thinkers, the ones who explore what it means to
be human. Are you writing scenes that make you feel? If your writing makes you
feel it will do the same for others. However, if you’re going to write this true
and deep, you’re going to need a thick skin. This doesn’t happen overnight.
My friend Sarah and I at Brandy's book launch party! |
I once received a critique on my
writing that shattered me. It was early in my writing journey. After I read
that critique, I didn’t write for six months. But I’d be lying if I told you
that experience didn’t make me stronger. After six months and one day I had to
reach deep down and affirm that I was a writer. I believed in my story and I
was going to push on. After experiences like this you start to know yourself.
You know who you want to be as a writer and then when criticism comes you’re
able to shake it off.
It takes a while to get over the
fear of other peoples’ opinions. But after some time is behind you, opinions
don’t matter so much anymore. All those magic hours that you have spent with
your manuscript start to tip the scale. Your story is no longer just words on
your computer, it is alive for you. Your characters breathe and speak—so real,
almost as if they could walk through your front door. And no one can take that
away from you. This is one of the best gifts.
God
is doing a work in you.
Some
of my writer friends and I have a running conversation. We have come to the
conclusion that God works parallels in our lives that show up in our stories.
Sometimes we can’t write a book until we’re strong enough, until we’ve gone
through something hard. Unfortunately, this is painful and it takes time. But
the more wisdom you gain, the smarter your stories will be. So live life
beautifully and well. Stay in the fight.
4.
It
won’t be so hard the second time around.
When I started my second novel, I
was worried that I’d have to go through what I did with my first. But something
amazing happened, I knew things by heart. It was like muscle memory. With the
eleven drafts of The Covered Deep, I
had learned a lot. Every experience as a writer is a building block. Every
class you attend, article you write, or time spent researching is a stepping
stone.
I think of every draft of a novel
as weaving a tapestry. It takes a lot of passes before the picture is just
right. When you finally weave those last threads, your story becomes a
magnificent thing. I’m not saying you have to do eleven drafts, I’m just saying
that the only way you can tell if your story is finished is if you feel it in
your bones.
During your road to publication, have faith that God is the
best storyteller, and that He is telling yours. He is intimately acquainted
with all your details, including the details in your novel. It was no accident
that I decided to make my heroine’s dreams come true by means of a contest, and
then God made my publishing dreams come true by means of a contest as well
(Operation First Novel). God is always paying attention. You are not forgotten.
When your publishing contract finally does come, I hope you’ll be able to look
back and hold your valuable journey close.
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Brandy is a member of the Christian Writers Guild, American
Christian Fiction Writers, and Pikes Peak Writers. She is the 2013 winner of
the Christian Writers Guild Operation First Novel Contest which included a
publishing contract for The Covered Deep by Worthy
Publishing. In 2012, she won the American Christian Fiction Writers
Genesis Contest for historical romance. In 2011, Brandy was a semi-finalist in
the Genesis Contest. In 2009, Brandy won honorable mention at the Pikes Peak
Writers American Icon contest.
8 comments:
Every time I read about another writer's journey and story as a writer, I glean new grace for the journey. and I feel a sense of comradeship, know I'm not alone in my experiences! Thank you for sharing!
Hi Brandy & Happy Thanksgiving to you all!
Wonderful post! My journey took almost as long as yours!
I especially love your tapestry analogy! So true.
Looking forward to reading your book.
Cheers,
Sue
This was the perfect post to read today. I am so grateful to have found this place. Brandy, thank you.
Like Kelly, this was the perfect post for me to read today. I have put my writing aside for a time, because I felt like God was telling me I had made an idol of it. But I've been feeling the itch to write again and yet I can't seem to take the step to start back. I keep remembering the rejection and question whether I can handle that over and over...which I know is part of the journey. So thank you for your words. They were an encouragement that I've needed.
Timely reminders for me even comparatively early on in my own writing journey. <3
Thank you so much for your kind words, everyone! I'm so glad you found the post to be helpful. <3
I love this encouraging interview! Thank you, Brandy and Casey.
I think this was my favorite line: "I’m not saying you have to do eleven drafts, I’m just saying that the only way you can tell if your story is finished is if you feel it in your bones."
I so enjoyed The Covered Deep and look forward to your next book(s)!
Kerry
Good article from Brandy, thanks. I wish I had a good group of writers to relate to and have a mutual-admiration-support community with, but it hasn't happened for a long, long time...my recent attempt to join a grp left me feeling sad/failed. This journey started out exciting and meaningful to me, but now I'm not sure anymore...
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