Some of you went to ACFW and had successful agent and editor
appointments, requests for material, and positive feedback on your work.
Others of you
attended, but felt that your meetings did not go well. Perhaps you bungled
your pitch; maybe the agent wasn’t interested in what you had to offer, or the
editor felt your genre was already over-represented at their house.
Whatever the case, you came away deflated and feeling the sting of failure.
Still others weren’t
able to attend at all. You watched from the sidelines as your friends went
and returned, glowing with their successes and accomplishments. Your role has
been a cheerleader, and although you’re glad to celebrate with your friends, a
deep-down part of you wonders when it will be your turn.
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For those who fall into the last two categories, this post
is for you. How do you keep a sweet spirit when it seems as if everyone is
being promoted around you and you’ve been left far behind?
Here are some ideas.
1. Pray a blessing
over those who are doing well.
Bless them? Aren’t they the last people in need of your
prayers?! They’re already being blessed!
Perhaps, but this exercise has more to do with the state of
your spirit than the state of the person you’re praying for.
Praying a blessing over someone else in their time of
success is the best way to do spiritual warfare against jealousy.
(click to tweet.) The enemy wants you to feel jealous; to compare yourself and feel
like you come up short. When you turn this on its head and pray for God to heap
blessing on the person you envy, Satan’s attack on your heart loses its power.
So pray, even if – especially
if – you don’t feel like it. Pray for those God has blessed, for even more
abundance, for favour, for new and better opportunities, for success
overflowing.
The more you exercise this sort of spiritual warfare against
resistance, the more God will transform your heart, bringing it into line with
the words you’re praying, until you forget about yourself and genuinely desire
the success of others.
2. Focus on the
kingdom picture, not the glory of self.
We say our motivation in writing is to bring glory to God,
but nothing tests this assertion like moments when there is no glory for self
to be found. (click to tweet.)
Is your heart for God’s kingdom to grow? Meditate on this.
Spend time in the word, reminding yourself daily of the bigger picture at
stake. All our accomplishments will one day pass away, but God’s kingdom will
last forever.
When our heart is in tune with God’s heart, our focus
naturally shifts away from ourselves and toward kingdom values. Competition is
replaced with teamwork. We’re all working for a common goal, so the success of
another is your success, too.
Praise God for any way in which his word goes forth, whether
it’s carried by you or someone else. The important thing is God glorified.
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3. Rest in God’s good
plan for your life
Striving ties us up in knots and brings dissatisfaction.
It says, “I don’t
trust God to work this out, so I must make it happen on my own.”
And when you can’t make
it happen, or things don’t go the way you hoped, you feel depressed and lose
your confidence.
Hebrews 10:35 says: “So do not throw away
this confident trust in the Lord. Remember the great reward it brings you!”
(NLT)
This type of confidence doesn’t depend on
attending a writer’s conference or having agents and editors request your work.
It’s a confidence rooted in your deep soul-knowledge that
God loves you, that he wants his best for you, that he has ordered your steps
from before you were born and is daily working out his purposes in your life.
Don’t throw that away to lean on your own striving.
Confident trust brings peace and rest and joy in the
journey, no matter what the outward circumstances look like.
Be blessed, take heart and take joy! God has you in the palm
of his hand.
Did ACFW leave you elated or
deflated? What is God speaking to you through this experience?
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